Reclaiming Confidence: Fashion Tips for Women Over 40 with Ariana Carps of Rear Ends

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For those of you who know me IRL, it’s safe to say that my fashion choices aren’t edgy. :-)

That’s why I am really excited to introduce the latest guest of “Going the Distance by Go Long” - yes, that is what we’re now calling the show (thanks, JR!). We covered fashion, body positivity, and dressing for women over 40.

So many myths dispelled. You’re going to want to listen to this entire episode.

This was definitely one of the more entertaining episodes that I have filmed since starting the show a year ago (wow, time flies). I hope you all enjoy it as much as I did when we filmed it.

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About Ariana and Rear Ends

Say hello to Ariana Carps, the 2nd generation owner of Rear Ends, a boutique in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan. Ariana’s parents are still involved in the business because as they say “retirement looks a little different in a family business.”

Rear Ends specializes in the best in women's denim and casual wear. Ariana and Elaine travel to New York, LA, and Chicago several times a year to find the most current styles at the quality people have come to expect from Rear Ends. At it's core Rear Ends is a jean store, but we expand outwards based on the season's styles and what we believe our clientele will love. In the summer you can find more dresses and skirts, in the fall you can find leather jackets and blazers. As long as you're not looking for a black tie ballgown, you can probably find it at Rear Ends.


Major Topics Covered

  • Fashion, body positivity and dressing for women 40+

  • Understanding body types

  • Challenges of shopping online

  • Practical tips for dressing during perimenopause

  • How to find the right fit and feel confident in your clothes

  • Undergarments and accessorizing

  • Impact of age on fashion choices while being open-minded and excited about their personal style

Quick Takeaways

Ariana: Shopping online can often lead to disappointment. Support local merchants as they will know how to find the right brands that fit you and give you confidence. Speaking of which, confidence comes from accepting your body as it is. And stop adhering to outdated rules on colors - she’s looking at you, white jeans!

Jill: Once you know a brand you’re interested in, go to their website or reach out to them on social to find out where they have a stockist near you! One company’s high-rise can be another company’s low-rise - if it seems hard, it’s because it is. Shop local instead. Be possibility-focused about what works and doesn’t work for you. Just because it didn’t work for you when you were younger doesn’t mean it won’t work for you now.

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Go Long recommends listening to the entire podcast for context, but knows you are all busy people so below you will see timestamps.


Timestamps

00:00: Introduction to Fashion and Body Positivity

02:49: Dressing for Your Body Type

06:14: Navigating Body Changes and Fashion Choices

09:09: Practical Tips for Dressing During Menopause

12:03: Embracing Fashion at Any Age

14:46: The Importance of Undergarments

18:05: Accessorizing Your Outfits

20:59: Finding the Right Brands for Your Body

23:47: Traveling in Style

26:59: How to Tip Your Partner Off on What They Should Buy You as a Surprise

29:52: Color Choices and Fashion Myths

32:48: Conclusion and Final Thoughts


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